My mother was one of eight kids. When she was born, there was no name on her birth certificate, just “girl” Abend. It seems things were so different these days. I can’t even imagine a baby being born without a name on the birth certificate. Nowadays, married adults not only find out the sex of a child before it is born, they hold reveal parties and plan accordingly.

Even if I was giving birth now, I would not like to find out the sex of the baby before it is born. I had the chance to, with both of my kids, but I chose not to. I liked the element of surprise. When I had my first son, I desperately wanted a girl the second time. By accident, the doctor revealed the sex to my husband. When my husband told me I was having another boy, I was disappointed for a split second, but this feeling did not last long, and now I can’t imagine my family any other way.

My husband had two sisters, though he fiercely wanted a brother. I have a brother who is much older (eleven years), as well as a sister, who is five years older. By the time I was six, my brother was in college so I did not see him much. Now that we are in the same stage of life, my brother and I are very close. Because I had grown up with my sister, I assumed I would have a daughter. It never dawned on me that I wouldn’t. I knew what girls liked, but boys? I was in the dark about what their needs were.

Fortunately, because I had my first son, I was a quick learner and loved every minute of raising the second boy. My husband was secretly thrilled that my older son would have a brother. I, too, was happy, and hoped they would grow up to be close. So, while I may have accidentally found out I was having a second son, I quickly understood what a blessing it was. Finding out would not have made any difference in how I raised him. Every child is different, and I loved raising my boys (err…men). Once they put that child in your arms, it is pure love, no matter what the sex.

Though my boys may be very different, they both love desserts with apples. So, when the Fall comes, I really enjoy going apple picking and finding apple desserts to serve them. This one is really special because it is so very close to actually having a caramel apple, (OMG –  my mouth is watering just thinking about it). This cake screams fall in every bite. The apples are dressed with savory goodies, like cardamom, cloves, and cinnamon. It is topped with oats, (my favorite!) and brown sugar, and is just the right amount of sweet. The pecans add a nice crunchy texture. It is then topped with more caramel sauce, which is heavenly, because let’s face it, you just can’t have too much caramel on anything.

This recipe is courtesy of New York Times Cooking and makes 8 to 10 servings of the most sweet and delicious fall dessert you will ever taste.

Ingredients for Skillet Caramel Apple Crisp:

FOR THE CARAMEL SAUCE:

2 cups granulated sugar
¾ cup unsalted butter (1 1/2 sticks), diced
1 cup heavy cream
1 teaspoon vanilla bean paste or extract
1 teaspoon kosher salt

FOR THE FILLING:

3 pounds tart, firm apples such as Mutsu, Jonathan or Honeycrisp, (about 6 medium apples)
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
½ teaspoon ground cardamom
⅛ teaspoon ground cloves
Pinch of kosher salt

FOR THE TOPPING:

1 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup old-fashioned oats
⅓ cup chopped pecans (optional)
⅓ cup light brown sugar
½ teaspoon kosher salt
½ cup/115 grams unsalted butter (1 stick), softened

Make the caramel sauce:

Add the granulated sugar and 1/4 cup water to a 3-quart saucepan and stir to combine.

Add the butter and set it over medium-high heat, but do not stir.

Cook, without stirring, until the butter and sugar have completely melted and started to bubble, 4 to 5 minutes.

After the mixture has begun to brown at the edges, use a heatproof spatula to carefully stir it occasionally until it is deep golden brown and beginning to smoke just slightly, about 4 to 5 minutes.

Do not walk away from the pan during this process as the caramel will go from perfectly golden to burned in moments.

When the mixture is deep golden, remove the pan from the heat, and carefully whisk in the heavy cream.

The mixture will expand and sputter before turning into a smooth sauce.

Add the vanilla and salt.

If the caramel is at all lumpy, return the pan to the stove on low heat and whisk until smooth.

You should have about 2 cups.

Carefully pour the caramel into a heat-safe container to cool.

Prepare the filling:

Heat your oven to 350 degrees and set a rack in the center.

Peel, core and slice the apples into 1/2-inch slices, removing any bruised bits if necessary.

Combine the sliced apples, lemon juice, spices and salt in a large bowl, and stir to combine.

Drizzle 1/2 cup caramel sauce over the top and stir again.

Scrape the apples and all of their juices into a 9- or 10-inch oven-safe skillet.

Make the topping:

In the same bowl, combine the flour, oats, pecans, sugar and salt.

Stir until well combined, then add the butter and mash it into the dry ingredients with your fingers until crumbs form.

Pour the crumb topping evenly over the apples.

Bake the crisp until the topping is golden and the juices are bubbling, 40 to 50 minutes.

Serve warm with more warm caramel sauce and ice cream.

Store any remaining sauce in an airtight container in the refrigerator for about a week.

It can be rewarmed for later use in a saucepan over low heat.

It’s that simple!

 

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I know I already wrote a blog post about household chores, but stick with me here.  In writing that, I kept thinking about how versatile vinegar is, so consider this part two– all about vinegar From shower heads to windows to microwaves, vinegar is a resourceful cleaner (especially distilled white vinegar) and will save you money as well. Good to know, right? Here are some uses for you.

Microwave: Bring 1/4 cup of vinegar and 1 cup of water to a boil in your microwave. Heat it until you see steam forming on the window. Then carefully take the solution out of the microwave and wipe clean.  The gunk should come off easily.

Automatic coffee makers: Fill the reservoir with white vinegar and run your coffee maker through a full cycle. Pour out the vinegar and refill the pot with plain water and run it through another cycle. Now you will have a fresh clean pot with no bad tasting residue.

Flowers: Yes, you read that correctly. Fresh flowers will last much longer if you add 2 tablespoons of vinegar and 2 tablespoons of sugar to the water. Be sure to change the water as it gets cloudy, and cut the stems too.

Use it as an all-purpose cleaner: Ditch your chemically-based cleaners and fill a spray bottle with one part vinegar and one part water. You can eliminate the vinegar smell if you don’t like it by adding a drop or two of your favorite scented oil. Fresh lemon works well, and it, too is a cleaner because it helps to cut grease and odors.

Stainless Steel: Forget about those expensive cleaners for your stainless-steel appliances. Spray some vinegar straight-up (no water), and then buff with a soft cloth. Your stainless steel will shine like new.

Showerhead cleaner: Put some undiluted vinegar in a plastic bag, and wrap it around your showered. Leave it on for two hours or more, then remove it and run the shower for a minute or two.  Good as new!

Vinegar as a weed killer: I did not know about this, but I am definitely going to try it in my garden next spring. You need to use vinegar with a high acidity (about 20 percent). Apply to areas that weeds grow. Forget about the chemical weed killers, especially if you have pets that go outside near the area that you need to kill the weeds.

Oh, I could go on and on about vinegar and it’s many resourceful uses. it is truly one of the best all-purpose items out there. From cooking to cleaning to personal use, there really are endless uses for vinegar. Of course, balsamic and red wine vinegar, as with all mixed vinegars, are not to be used for cleaning purposes. High acidity vinegar should only be used for cleaning purposes. Apple cider vinegar can be used for both cleaning and cooking, and it has health benefits too.

For this dish, we are using rice vinegar, which is a sweet, delicate vinegar that adds a nice tang to any recipe. Rice vinegar is usually found in Asian cuisine. I know we all like our Chinese take-out, but this is a made-at home fresh version, which I recommend highly.  This dish will stand up to even the most delicious take out, and it’s probably healthier too! The soy sauce, hoisin sauce, and rice vinegar give this dish a tangy and sweet flavor. The sesame seeds and oil add authentic seasoning. The chicken is transformed into orange, zesty goodness. The crushed red pepper flakes and garlic give it enough heat to be tasty, but not so much as to overwhelm picky eaters. This dish is so much better than anything you can get in a restaurant. Trust me.

This dish is courtesy of Super Simple, by  Tieghan Gerard and will serve 4 to 6 people who will never order orange chicken again.

Ingredients for Kai’s Favorite Sesame Orange Chicken:

1.5 lbs boneless, skinless chicken breasts cut into bite size pieces. I used chicken breast tenderloins 
4 Tablespoons of Soy Sauce
1/4 Cup of all purpose flour 
1 inch of ginger 
2 garlic cloves, grated (I used minced)
Juice of 1/2 orange
2 Tablespoons of hoisin sauce 
2 Tablespoons of rice vinegar 
1-2 Tablespoons of crushed red pepper flakes 
1 Tablespoon of toasted sesame oil 
2 Tablespoons of olive oil 
2 green onions chopped 
White Rice 
2 Tablespoons of toasted sesame seeds

In a medium bowl, combine the chicken, 2 tablespoons of the soy sauce, and the flour.

 

Toss, making sure the flour had evenly coated the chicken.

In a small bowl or glass measuring cup, whisk together the remaining 2 tablespoons of soy sauce and the ginger, garlic, orange zest, orange juice, hoisin sauce, vinegar and red pepper flakes, and toasted sesame oil.

Heat the olive oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat.

When the oil shimmers, add the chicken in an even layer and cook, stirring until browned all over, about 5 minutes.

Pour in the sauce and bring to a boil, then reduce the heat to medium-low and simmer, stirring occasionally, until the sauce thickens and the chicken is coated, 5 to 10 minutes.

Remove the skillet from the heat and stir in the green onions.

Serve the chicken over rice and top with more green onions and toasted sesame seeds.

It’s that simple!

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Strange as it may sound, I really love to do laundry.  Over the years, I have developed my own mixture of cleaning aids to make my laundry clean and smell good too, making the chore much better than it would usually be. Here are my tips and tricks, developed from many years of trial and error..

Should you wash new clothes before you wear them? The answer is absolutely yes. There are dyes in new clothes that are not fully absorbed and the dye can get onto your skin, potentially causing an uncomfortable rash. Washing your clothes before you wear them can eliminate this problem by loosening the dye and allowing it to wash out of the fibers.

Washing also eliminates any potential bacteria and insects that can linger on clothes. Folks who may have tried on the garment in the store could leave the item teeming with bacteria and lice. Wash the clothing in soapy hot water to get rid of these pesky creatures.

If your towel fibers are rough and are not absorbing, place them in the washing machine with a cup of vinegar, (no detergent) and put them through a wash cycle. The vinegar helps to set the colors and removes excess detergent that is lingering in the towels, which will make the towels softer. After washing with vinegar, run them through the wash again with baking soda and hot water, and again, no detergent.

Vinegar also works well for a shirt or pants that are very rough and hard to the touch. Soak the shirt or jeans in your sink with just vinegar in it overnight. Then use the vinegar again in the laundry (as above, no detergent) and I promise you will have clothes that are soft and easy to wear.

Every load I do, I put 1/2 cup to 1 cup of vinegar and a small amount of baking soda in with the clothing. Your clothes will not smell of vinegar, I promise. The vinegar gets absorbed in the water and there will be no lingering smell. I use it on sheets and bed blankets as well. If you have animals, this method also reduces any smell that they may leave on your sheets– imagine that!

Those of you with teenage boys might find this helpful: If your towels are still really smelly, just repeat this process and soon you will have fresh smelling towels that smell and feel like new.  

Always, always, hang your clothes to dry on a laundry rack. I know this is an extra step, but it really is important. It will make your clothes last longer, and they will feel and smell so good. It will also eliminate any shrinkage. After they are dry, place them in the dryer for 10 to 15 minutes. I use some lavender oil that I place on a towel and put in in the dryer. This leaves a nice scent on our all our clothes.

After you get done doing all this laundry, I highly suggest finding some time to make this incredible cake. The buttermilk and eggs ensure a moist, mouthwatering cake. The milk drench also makes this cake luscious. The heavy cream and the sweetened condensed milk assure a creamy consistency that makes this dessert filled with delicious taste. The icing is the perfect topping for this cake. The cream cheese, combined with the heavy cream, whips up a delightful frosting. The lime adds a nice tang and the vanilla is savory goodness.

This recipe is courtesy of 425 magazine and will serve 12 people who will love this decadent, luscious treat after finishing the laundry for the day.

Ingredients for Lime Tres Leches Cake:

1/2 cup, plus 2 tablespoons soft butter
1 cup granulated sugar
Zest of 1 lime
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 
5 large eggs, or 4 extra-large eggs 
1 3/4 cup flour, scooped and leveled 
2 teaspoons baking powder 
1/4 cup buttermilk 

For the Milk Drench:

1 cup whole milk
1 cup heavy cream
Juice of 1 lime
1 14-ounce can sweetened condensed milk
Pinch of salt

For the Whipped Cream Cheese Frosting:

8 ounces soft cream cheese
1 1/2 cups heavy whipping cream
1/2 cup granulated sugar 
Zest one lime 
Pinch of salt
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Line a 9-by-13 pan with parchment paper that’s been lightly buttered.

Cream butter and sugar, then add lime zest, salt, and vanilla.

With mixer on low, add eggs.

Mix only until eggs are just incorporated, and do not overmix.

Slowly add flour and baking powder in 2 additions by hand.

Gently fold in flour, then add buttermilk.

Spread the batter into your prepared pan, and bake for 22-28 minutes or until just baked.

Do not overbake, or cake will be dry even after the milk is poured over.

When cake is done, use a fork to poke dozens of holes all over the cake.

The more holes, the better opportunity you have to get milk drench into all parts of the sponge.

Make the milk drench:

Add all milk drench ingredients to a bowl and whisk.

Pour the milk drench evenly over the cake.

Allow to sit at room temperature for an hour before frosting.

Make the Frosting:

Whip the softened cream cheese in a stand mixer until light and fluffy on medium to low speed.

Slowly stream in heavy cream, sugar, vanilla, lime zest and slat.

Whip on medium speed until thickened, 4 to 5 minutes.

Frost the cake and refrigerate for at least 2 hours before serving.

Cake is amazing the next day.

It’s that simple!

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Happy Halloween!

The name Halloween comes from “All Hallows Eve,” and falls on the day before All Saints Day, a traditional holy day for Christians. People tried to appease the restless spirits on Halloween, and these practices led to many of today’s holiday traditions.  Parades, pumpkin carving, and trick or treating are the three beloved traditions of the day.

Anoka, Minnesota is believed to be the first city in the United States to put on a Halloween celebration to divert its youngsters from more devious Halloween pranks. When the people of Anoka awoke to find their cows roaming Main Street, windows soaped and outhouses tipped over, they decided something had to be done. But what could they do?

A block party, complete with costumes, food, fun, and parties seemed like the perfect idea.  Halloween became a wonderful distraction for the town for generations to come, and they wouldn’t have it any other way. The crispness of the season, the warmth of comfort food, and the creative costumes are just a few reasons to love the month of October. In 1920, George Green and other Anoka civic leaders suggested the idea of a huge, festive celebration. The idea was adopted by the Anoka Commercial Club and the Anoka Kiwanis Club; both giving their full support.

Anoka’s Halloween celebration continues to this day. Both the night parade and Grande Day parade have grown to include units from all over the Midwest. The original concept of having costumed students parade down Main Street continues on the Friday preceding the Grande Day parade. Anoka residents can watch their grandchildren or great-grandchildren continue what they started so many years ago. And, as you know, the entire country has taken up this tradition too.

Pumpkin carving is another traditional Halloween activity, but why do we carve pumpkins on Halloween? According to Britannica, the origin comes from an Irish myth about Stingy Jack, who tricked the Devil for his own monetary gain. When Jack died, God didn’t allow him into heaven, and the Devil didn’t let him into hell, so Jack was sentenced to roam the earth for eternity. In Ireland, people started to carve demonic faces out of turnips to frighten away Jack’s wandering soul. When Irish immigrants moved to the United States, they began carving jack-o’-lanterns from pumpkins, as these were native to the region.

The most cherished tradition is trick or treating.  Again, according to Britannica, it involved going door-to-door in costume, performing short scenes or parts of plays in exchange for food or drink. The custom of trick or treating on Halloween may come from the belief that supernatural beings, roamed the earth at this time and needed to be appeased.

Here is hoping you a spooky night of boos and chills. I hope you and your friends enjoy the most magical, spooky thrills! May you dance like a ghost and fly like a witch. May you find this year full of your favorite things and good health. It is not my favorite holiday, but if it is yours, I hope you have scary fun with lots of good treats. I just want to remind everyone to be careful and enjoy a safe holiday.

Now this is a perfect treat for your Halloween festivities. The oil, butter, eggs, and buttermilk ensure a rich, moist bread. The chocolate chips add a delicious chocolate flavor that combines beautifully with the pumpkin. The pumpkin puree screams (yes, pun intended) “Halloween” in every bite. The cinnamon and vanilla are the savory here, giving this bread a full depth of flavor. Baking it in a square pan allows the bread to cook evenly and ensures every bite is lusciously addicting. This is a “keeper,” and the best thing is that you do not need to wait for Halloween to make it.

This recipe is courtesy of Danielle Kartes, in her book, Meant to Share. It will serve 8 to 10 people who will love sharing in the spooky frights of the day.

Ingredients for Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Bread:

1/2 cup soft butter, plus more for the pan
3/4 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for the pan
3/4 cups brown sugar
2 tablespoons neutral oil (See Note)
3 eggs, at room temperature
1 cup pumpkin purée
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 tablespoon baking powder
1/2 tablespoon baking soda
1 (12 ounce) bag semisweet chocolate chips
1/2 cup full-fat buttermilk

Note: A neutral oil is a cooking oil that has a neutral flavor vegetable or grapeseed. This sets them apart from stronger flavored oils like olive oil and avocado oil. These oils often aren’t used in baking because of their strong flavor.

Heat oven to 350°F.

You can use a loaf pan or a square 9 x 9-inch baking pan. The author recommends the latter.

Generously butter and lightly flour a baking pan and set aside. ( I used parchment paper to line the pan)

Cream butter and sugar on low speed using a hand or stand mixer.

Add the oil and eggs, one at a time, mixing on low speed after each addition.

Add the pumpkin, vanilla, cinnamon, and salt.

Mix until just combined.

Add the flour, baking powder, baking soda.

Add chocolate chips, then mix by hand gently until everything is just incorporated.

Add the buttermilk last and gently combine. Do not overmix.

Pour the batter into the prepared baking pan and bake for 25 minutes, then check the cake.

Bake an additional 5 to 10 minutes or until the cake is completely cooked but not overbaked.

Looks good, right? Wait for it…..

Then, after 10 minutes it will deflate!

No worries, it will taste just as good.

It’s that simple!

BOO!

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I know most people think it is a nightmare, but I love doing construction on my home.  It’s so exciting to plan my dream home, then work together with all sorts of people to bring the plans to fruition. 

The last time I did construction on my home, I had my kitchen redone– I added a library for my cookbooks, and a full bar too. I have a wonderful architect and contractor. That architect had completed the first two phases of my home, so it made sense to use him a third time. He knows my tastes really well, so I really enjoy looking at his plans and finalizing them. He always comes up with interesting ideas, and though we have to pick and choose according to our budget, I always end up with rooms I really love.

I had redone my kitchen once before, but with all the cooking I do, especially for the holidays, it quickly became too small. My sister-in-law, her daughters, their husbands, and her two grandchildren come over the day before Thanksgiving to help. My kitchen was hard to manage, especially with all those people in it. A few years went by and my husband and I decided we wanted to put a bar in the house. After spending years of my life in the kitchen, my very kind husband told me he wanted me to have a kitchen with all the bells and whistles. I finally got my dream kitchen, and I thought that was the end of construction.

Now that we have the beach house, we knew we would have to do construction. Surprise, surprise, the kitchen had to be redone. In addition to our surprise, my architect has a home near our beach home, and he offered to do the plans for my new home too. We are still in the planning stage, but I am looking forward to watching our home really become “ours.” I have enough room for any company that comes, but the kitchen and the first floor need a little work. I am sure I will be out there a lot, watching over and managing the workers and what they do. I feel very blessed to be designing a second dream kitchen.

No matter what the size of your kitchen, this is one dish that you can cook up. Unfortunately, I couldn’t find fresh corn, so I bought frozen corn, thawed it out, and used it. It worked beautifully. The sweet corn, when combined with the chipotle chili lends itself to a wonderful sweet and spicy aroma that makes you want just one more bite. The shallots add a nice fragrant sweetness. I added some lime zest along with the lime juice which gives it mouthwatering tang, and some extra flavor.  The Parmesan tops this dish off with irresistible deliciousness.

This recipe is courtesy of Ina Garten, who never, ever disappoints. It makes 6 to 8 servings, and proves that you don’t need the world’s fanciest kitchen to make a delicious side dish.

Ingredients for Chipotle Parmesan Sweet Corn:

6 tablespoons (¾ stick) unsalted butter
1 cup shallots, halved lengthwise, peeled, and thinly sliced crosswise (3 shallots)
8 cups white or yellow corn kernels (8 to 12 ears)
¼ teaspoon chipotle chile powder
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
2 tablespoons freshly squeezed lime juice
1 tablespoon freshly grated Italian Parmesan cheese

Heat the butter in a large (12-inch) sauté pan over medium heat, add the shallots, and cook for about 5 minutes, until tender and fragrant.

Add the corn.

Sprinkle in the chipotle powder, 2 teaspoons salt, and 1 teaspoon pepper.

Raise the heat to medium high and cook for 10 to 12 minutes, stirring occasionally to allow the corn to brown lightly, until the corn is tender but still firm.

Off the heat, stir in the lime juice and Parmesan.

Taste for seasonings and transfer to a large shallow serving bowl.

Serve hot.

It’s that simple!

 

 

 

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